A few friends asked why i've not been blogging as often as i used to. To be honest, i really don't know. Maybe it's because i've not had much inspiration...or perhaps, i've also been too caught up with everything else going on around me. Then again, the last few posts i started on were on negative notes..being pushed over the edge yet again by some annoying person. Once you exercise self-censorship, there's nothing much else to publish. :P
Not sure if it's the age thing. Was told that people mellow as they get older. I must be on the wrong bus then...coz i sure am going the opposite direction. 8) Then again, maybe i'm a late starter (yeah yeah.. try to console yourself). Like all positive things that develop, there's the negative side too. Lately, i've been less and less tolerant/sympathetic to others. I don't remember being so easily agitated over things before, but then again, maybe it's coz it's the same people bugging me.
Right now, my approach to things is "Problem? Got solution? Then fix it. No solution? Then find alternative. Done? Move on". Granted things are often not as simple as that, but once you learn how to draw the line between what's important and what's urgent, everything else is pretty much trivial/collateral. It is when people start hovering instead of doing their part or start worrying over the unecessary issues & bug you to no end about it, that really gets to me. ESPECIALLY when i've already given them alternative solutions.
UGH!!! Will you please get off the 'rocking chair of worry'?!?! IT'LL give you something to do, no doubt, BUT it won't get you ANYWHERE!! Worst, not only are you making me not like the person i'm turning into but you're also making my friends fed-up with the same rants i tell them EVERY time you annoy me.
So if you can't be a positive influence or make me a better person, please leave me alone. If you don't like the fact that i'm blunt, please don't ask for my opinions. Honesty, i can do. Real need, i can help. But if you want NICE, then may i suggest France?
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